meanwhile, elsewhere

Sunday’s online finds: Cozy up and dig in.



  • When you’re a woman over forty, a tunic wears you. (McSweeney’s)
  • Ticketmaster’s apology to the Swifties
  • And are they the only ones at fault? (Washington Post)
  • In Fiji, the climate crisis means dozens of villages could soon be underwater. Relocating so many communities is an epic undertaking. But now there is a plan – and the rest of the world is watching (cough cough, Atlantic Canada) (The Guardian)
  • I ate cereal with milk when I commuted to work – No Hardboiled Eggs on the Road, and Other Highly Subjective Car-Eating Advice (Bon Appetite)
  • What the Success of Women-Led Protests Tell Us About Iran’s Future (Time)
  • I Went to a Concert Alone to Find My Pre-Mom Self (Gloria)
  • The Decline of Etiquette and the Rise of ‘Boundaries’ – For centuries, strict social norms dictated what people could politely talk about. Now we have to figure it out for ourselves. (The Atlantic)
  • I am a freelance neurosurgeon, the only job that is both well-paying enough to afford $30,000 in tuition and flexible enough to deal with all the school holidays. School holidays are the three months of summer, plus a week each on Indigenous People’s Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year, Presidents’ Day, and Easter. The school is also closed for all federal and state holidays, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Diwali, Lunar New Year, Eid al-Fitr, and seven staff-learning Wednesdays. – A Parents Typical Day As Envisioned By My Childs Preschool (McSweeney’s)
  • Happy Turkey Trot weekend to all of my American family and friends. I miss you. (NYT)

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meanwhile, elsewhere

Monday’s online finds: Cozy up and dig in.



  • This Just In — Dark Green Is *The* Chic Nail Shade You’ll Want To Wear All Winter Long (TZR)
  • I am pretty sure I have already gushed about this episode of You’re Wrong About, but an update: everyone else loves it, and I am now listening to Blair Braverman’s book Small Game.
  • Home is Where Your Best Friend Is (Harpers Bazaar)
  • How To Be Successful
  • Kurt Vonnegut: “There Are Six Seasons Instead of Four” (Kottke)
  • Recommend The Noodle Group short doc on CBC Gem. (via Sarah)
  • If I lived in East Hampton, I’d get this
  • Mr. and Mrs. Powledge Renovate Their Dream House “While my arm didn’t heal properly, the ceiling job is beautiful.” Renovations are not for the faint of heart – (Curbed)
  • Loving these birth month flower necklaces (GLDN)
  • And finally, in case you missed it – my 2023 Desktop Calendars are ready, and I am taking orders. All the details are here.

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meanwhile, elsewhere

Friday’s online finds: Cozy up and dig in.



  • Lest we forget (The Guardian)
  • Y’all: the Most Inclusive of All Pronouns (NYT)
  • Tami Taylor agrees (YouTube)
  • I’m interested – what if a water bottle was online dating?
  • I need to try this next time I make muffins (Kitchn)
  • Intensive Parenting: It’s expensive and time-consuming. But the data prove that kids benefit. (The Atlantic)
  • “…Your teen is like the popular kid at school who rarely acknowledges your existence. So, when they do, you try too hard!” – 11 Reader Comments on Parenting Teens (Cup Of Jo)
  • Has anyone ever done something like this? I am kind of interested but don’t want to do it alone
  • Half the World Has a Clitoris. Why Don’t Doctors Study It? (NYT)
  • Oh! I think I need a new hallway runner. Love Ruggable (Apartment Therapy)
  • I’d live here (House and Garden)
  • Would anyone even care about what we were doing? Yes – Jodi Kantor and Megan Twohey Go Behind the Scenes of She Said (Vogue)
  • Julie Powell, Food Writer Known for ‘Julie & Julia,’ Dies at 49 (NYT)
  • I’ll take bad photos ALL DAY, EVERY DAY, over reels in my feed. (PetaPixel)
  • And finally, in case you missed it – my 2023 Desktop Calendars are ready, and I am taking orders. All the details are here, but in less than 24hr, $200 has been raised for Shelter Nova Scotia. Thank you!

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meanwhile, elsewhere

Sunday’s online finds: Cozy up and dig in.



  • How a Dog’s Killing Turned Brooklyn Progressives Against One Another – After a sudden confrontation that left a golden retriever dead, neighbors came together online to support the owner of the dog. But then things changed. (NYT)
  • Climbing the hill of life is challenging but marvelous. The way down is slippery. Literally. It’s easier to walk up than down. Even though gravity helps you. – ‘Nature Has Its Way of Ending Life. I’m Changing the Manner and the Time.’ As her grandpa-in-law prepared for the end, Rachel called to say good-bye. (The Cut)
  • Bad Sisters is about to give (GAVE) us the most satisfying TV finale of the year (The Guardian)
  • How many van Goghs is one Earth worth? (Vox)
  • Speeding Up Your Daily Walk Could Have Big Benefits (NYT)
  • I’m basically Diane Keaton (Instagram)
  • Reflection From My Summer Sabbatical (Brené Brown)
  • In Ejaculate Responsibly, Gabrielle Blair Makes Abortion a Men’s Issue (Vogue)
  • What “take care of yourself” means in a crisis (not much) (Evil Witches Newsletter)
  • Portugal Announces A One-Year ‘Digital Nomad’ Visa For Remote Workers (Apartment Therapy)

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meanwhile, elsewhere

Monday’s online finds: Cozy up and dig in.



  • I will make more soups this season. I will, dammit. (A Couple Cooks)
  • Grand-mates: Generations Sharing a Special Bond (and Sometimes the Rent) – More young adults are moving in with their grandparents, in a trend known as “skipped-generation” households. (NYT)
  • For all the 39-year-olds in my life (Wit & Delight)
  • Wait, this is still a career possibility? Where and when can Miles and I sign up! (The Atlantic)
  • Did I write this, or did someone steal it from my brain: Every Aug. 1, an alarm goes off in my brain. Fall is coming. Then winter. Then you’ll be depressed. FOR MONTHS. While it’s not exactly a cheerful thought, it’s one that I can count on every year. (Apartment Therapy)
  • “I’m working as hard as I can to come out the other side… But it’s a huge sense of shame and a sense that I’ve just let a ton of people down. People expect me to be fully cured, fully healed, be an advocate for this stuff… And it’s not a completely linear thing. I think that’s been the hardest thing. I just want it to be this one linear, upward trajectory. It never is.” – A serious injury kept her out of the World Championships marathon. That was only one part of her complicated health picture. (Runner’s World)
  • Who’s in need of a museum date with me? (Open Culture)
  • Anything but reels, and I am happy – The food blogger aesthetic has given way to something more realistic and DIY: Laissez-faire Instagram food is here (Eater)
  • And for days like this: A Single-Serving Chocolate Chip Cookie (WP)

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