If you’ve been around a while, you probably know that I’m not afraid of making resolutions and intentions and I dive headfirst into a good goal-list so here we are; a new year, a new list.
For me, the best part of list-making is that I know I will not achieve everything but if I write it down or say it, it’s more likely to happen.
10 things I want to work on (but may not) in 2019
- Swimming: Once I’m in the water, I’m happy as a clam but mygawd it’s hard to get in. I know the benefits, I have a membership to a pool, my kid swims three days a week… I have no excuses.
- Self-acceptance: I’m going to get into this later but it’s something I need to work on. I have ideas, I just need the confidence to believe that I am capable.
- Barre: I fell in love with barre classes a few years ago but haven’t done it in ages. I should. I will. My aching body will thank me.
- Photography: I am planning to take some time this year to learn more skills (lighting, styling, etc.) It’s been an intention for a few years but I need to stop thinking about it and start doing it. (see #2)
- Entertaining: Who says it has to be fancy and involve several courses? I love having people over but it doesn’t happen enough. I’m thinking games nights or simple gatherings. Murder Mystery anyone?
- Hooking or pottery: Two somewhat newish things I discovered that brought me joy. I am not planning to hook 1000 pillows or become a professional potter but I need to focus on stuff like this.
- Cooking: I don’t love cooking because I want to be good at it, and I am not. I want to get more comfortable in the kitchen.
- Personal projects, like a website or whatever this space is: The woes of any self-employed person is they never put the time into their own projects. I need to organize my days better for this.
- Reading: I’m already pretty decent at this, I read a lot and I listen to a lot of audiobooks but I want to make it more of a priority.
- Gratitude: I have a lot of things to be grateful for but sometimes it’s hard to not dwell on the hardships. I need to remind myself of the good stuff. Make simple things more fun!
No pressure, but 2019 is kind of a big deal. It’s the end of a decade, the end of my thirties and I am approaching my #fortybeforeforty deadline with a long list of items to tackle so why not add more and make it fun!
Have a happy new year, make it a good one.
(image) all gifs from Giphy
Fall is not my thing. That said, my motto is: accept and proceed; buy hand warmers and adapt.
A few people have asked what’s on my Fall must-do list and I’m quick to say nothing because I am still mourning Summer but my friend Sophie requested we try and make the most of the season. And try I shall. Here’s her list which I am going to work through… even the pumpkin stuff.
Sophie’s Fall Bucket List
- Drink a Fall Seasonal Drink (unironically)
- Wear a tartan skirt with a turtleneck
- Watch the sunrise
- Hike in the Adirondacks = Hike
- Go apple picking
- Wear a beret
- Watch Meghan’s must-see movies: Dirty Dancing and Pump Up the Volume (This is basically me threatening Sophie – I can’t believe she hasn’t watched Dirty Dancing!)
- Make butter tarts
- Create a Halloween costume
- Walk in Central Park while the leaves are changing = Any park will do
- Drink mulled wine or a hot apple cider (like an actual one, not powder)
- Weekly fall manicure = I am aiming for 1 fall manicure
- Drink 2L of water per day (that’s a lot!)
- Write letters
- Wear stylish outfits for one week straight
- Cook egg-bites (or go to Starbucks)
- Go to a trivia night with friends
- Build a cornucopia
- Visit with an old friend
- Go to high tea = or just tea, we don’t need to be fancy.
- Visit a museum exhibit
- Stroll ALL of Mount-Royal = stroll around the neighbourhood, visit stores I pass by and never go in.
- Cook and eat Coddled Eggs
- Stoke a fire
*modified for people outside of Montreal and who will not be visiting New York City any time soon.(image)
Here’s the last time I did a fall bucket list (results)
We can all agree that the worst word ever is panty, right? Especially when said by a man. Panty, panties, pantyhose, pantyliner, etc., they’re all terrible words that should not exist. Either wear underwear or wear nothing at all. Do not wear panties.
Here are 10 more words I can’t handle:
- FINE: Fine thanks, you? No one should ever aspire to be fine. It’s like no wall wants to be beige.
- FEBRUARY: Nothing against Pisces, I just think the spelling is problematic. What’s up with that R? Do we need it?
- STEW: Both the noun (I hate chunky soup (also see #10)) and the action. Do not stew on anything, make a damn decision.
- MOIST: I never liked the band because the word makes me uncomfortable. Sorry Erin Mac, I know you were a fan.
- FART: hate hate hate hate hate. Hate.
- BRAIN FART: Is this even related to a FART? Not only does it NOT make sense, but it’s also gross.
- A’INT: He ain’t heavy… he is NOT heavy.
- ARSE: Bums are soft and cushiony which is why the hard ARRRRR in arse doesn’t work for me.
- SPECIFIC: Is there a word more complicated to say on the first try?
- CHOWDER: Especially fish chowder. Creamy + chunky + cut up fish. I just can’t. That said, I put on my big girl panties and tried a bread bowl this winter. It was fine, but I felt like I was going against all of my moral values.
Honorable mention: CBC’s pronunciation of Shhhhedule, Shhhocial Shtudies, etc. Do you think it makes you sound more pretentious? Because it doesn’t.
There are more. So many more, but let’s not stew on this for any longer.
Hello, August. Just a quick check-in – How is everyone’s summer going?
Things are moving along nicely with my 100 Days of Summer: Let’s Do it list but, it has not totally been smooth sailing (I have yet to go sailing, by the way).Here’s a quick 10-things update:
- All of my on-going items are well on track (17, 36, 71, 78, 79, 91)
- I got a not completed in 2016/2017 item done! (4)
- Seeking recommendations for a silk blouse that’s nice and not too expensive (16)
- Seeking someone with a sailboat (95). There’s a good chance the person with the sailboat also has excellent taste in silk blouses, so it’s likely a win-win for me.
- I did start designing my 2019 calendars but my hard drive crashed so now I need to restart (7) womp, womp
- The weather has been amazing. Yay!
- As are my family and friends who’ve been helping me get things checked off the list
- Marathon training is a pain in the butt for me because I actually pulled a butt muscle (57)
- 50/100 are completed!
- You can follow along on my Instagram (#100daysofsummer)
Good luck and …
it’s not over yet!
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